• Personal Growth

    Therapy can help you overcome obstacles that have kept you from reaching your goals and becoming the person you want to be. Many of us seek to deepen the meaning of our lives and enhance the quality of our relationships.

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  • Loss

    Experiencing the loss of someone who is important to you (through death or separation) can result in great emotional pain. At any time in our lives we may find ourselves suffering the effects of loss.

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  • Eating Disorders

    Increasingly many individuals, both female and male, are struggling with issues of weight, food intake, diets and poor body image. The impact of these problems can be both emotionally devastating and life threatening.

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  • Coping Mechanisms

    Sometimes emotional distress or relationship problems are associated with poor coping mechanisms, or a pattern of social interaction that perpetuates the problem and just triggers more distress and conflict.

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  • Relationship Issues

    Your distress may come from difficulties in your relationship with a spouse, parent, child, co-worker or significant other. Managing these relationships and maintaining healthy, positive connections to the people around you is often a very difficult task.

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  • Emotional Distress

    From time to time, everyone experiences emotional pain. But sometimes the distress is particularly severe or long-lasting and interferes with your ability to function in your daily life.

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  • ADD/ADHD

    While most people understand ADHD as a problem that causes young people to perform poorly at school, they are unaware that its impact goes far beyond academic failure.

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10 Ways to Stay with Today

“Most of the time, we are lost in the past or carried away by the future,” says Thich Nhat Hanh, a Buddhist monk and poet. Staying present will bring a more peaceful, joy-filled life. Try these 10 ways.

1. Pay attention to the details:
Notice the food you eat, the sun on your back, the quality of the light; literally stop to smell the roses.


2. Make a list of what you want to accomplish today.
List only the portion of a major project that can be completed today. Include pleasures as well as tasks.

3. Concentrate on the task at hand, not the outcome. Give it your best, knowing there is no perfect outcome.

4. Write “morning pages,” author Julia Cameron’s method to empty your mind of worry and chatter. Three non-stop pages every morning,  rst thing.

5. Let thoughts and feelings come and go without judging. Neither cling to nor reject them.

6. Don’t hang onto mistakes. Fix what needs  xing, then move on.

7. Make notes to yourself.
Jot things down so you don't forget them. Don’t try to juggle everything in your mind.

8. Be where you are. When you find yourself drifting off elsewhere, a gentle reminder to “be present” can help.

9. Take a moment to transition yourself from place to place and task to task.

10. Let go of the past. Make amends, forgive, grieve. Ask for help if you’re unable to let go. *

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