At its best, fear is an instinctive, natural ability to help us survive. At its worst, it’s that nagging voice inside our heads that heralds doom and disaster even before we get started on something. Fear keeps us from taking risks that might enrich our life or holds us back from doing some things we need to do. Fear says, “Not on your life.” To discover the role fear plays in your life, complete the following quiz.
The legend of Narcissus tells of a young boy who, upon seeing his reflection in a clear fountain with water like silver, fell hopelessly in love with himself.
Unable to tear his gaze away from his reflection, he could not eat, could not sleep, until finally, he pined away and died.
Do you value being seen and heard?
Do you want to have truly successful relationships?
Do you want to make an impact? Then speak up!
Of course, for some people, that’s easier said than done. You might prefer to train wild lions than tell another person what’s really on your mind. But it is possible to develop an assertiveness connected to head and heart that clears the way for honest, empowered living—with- out being rude to others or surrendering to “nice-itis.”
Read more: What's That You Said? The Fears that Prevent Us from Speaking Up
Welcome to my Winter newsletter.
This issue focuses on fear and the impact it has on our behavior and overall functioning. Why do we become fearful about some situations or issues that we face? What can we do about it?